Wednesday, January 27, 2010

What do you see?

Ever have one of those days when everything seemed to go wrong? Ever feel like the world was closing in around you? How about the feeling that every decision you made was the wrong one? Yeah, me too. Coming off our annual youth ministry retreat I felt like we were experiencing some incredible momentum. At camp our leaders and students enjoyed a genuine encounter with God and were now poised to invite and bring their friends to experience the grace of God.

As Wednesday approached we sent out our usual reminders to our students to bring and invite their friends to Live and after a good pre-service meeting and time of prayer service was just a few moments away. As the final minutes ticked by students started to pour into the auditorium… Did I say pour? Oops! I meant to write students began to trickle into the auditorium. At final count we ended up being under our weekly average attendance for that night. I could sense the disappointment in our leaders as they looked across the room. Even some of our students made some comments wondering where their friends were who promised they’d come.

It was at this moment that God brought to my memory a story in the Old Testament that helped me make sense of what I saw. This story also helped me make a conscious decision of what I was going to choose to see in that moment…

In 2 Kings chapter six we find the prophet Elisha messing with the King of Aram. Let’s pick up the story in verse eight of chapter six:

When the king of Aram was at war with Israel, he would confer with his officers and say, “We will mobilize our forces at such and such a place.”

But immediately Elisha, the man of God, would warn the king of Israel, “Do not go near that place, for the Arameans are planning to mobilize their troops there.”

So the king of Israel would send word to the place indicated by the man of God. Time and again Elisha warned the king, so that he would be on the alert there. The king of Aram became very upset over this. He called his officers together and demanded, “Which of you is the traitor? Who has been informing the king of Israel of my plans?”

“It’s not us, my lord the king,” one of the officers replied. “Elisha, the prophet in Israel, tells the king of Israel even the words you speak in the privacy of your bedroom!”

“Go and find out where he is,” the king commanded, “so I can send troops to seize him.”

That must have been fun for Elisha to know the plans of the enemy don’t you think? The Arameans think they have a great game plan against the Israelites going and then when they go to execute orders guess who’s there waiting? Elisha was essentially getting advanced copies of the enemy’s battle plans directly from God.

For sports fans, it’s sort of like when New England Patriots head coach Bill Belichick and his staff would spy on other teams to get their signals and game plans ahead of time. Then, on game day, when an opposing team would call a run play the Patriots would be there waiting. Of course this cost the Patriots draft picks and they incurred significant fines, but it’s a good picture of what Elisha was doing to the Arameans. But I digress…

At any rate the Arameans were understandably furious and set out to destroy God’s anointed one. They found out where he was and set up a sting operation...

And the report came back: “Elisha is at Dothan.” So one night the king of Aram sent a great army with many chariots and horses to surround the city.

I have always found this plan by the Arameans to be funny. If they knew that Elisha was hearing the words the King spoke in his bedroom wouldn’t they think he could find out they were coming to get him as well? Anyway, that was their plan.

When the servant of the man of God got up early the next morning and went outside, there were troops, horses, and chariots everywhere. “Oh, sir, what will we do now?” the young man cried to Elisha.

Elisha’s servant is freaking out and I can understand the feeling. When we came back from camp with great momentum I was as surprised as anyone to see so many empty chairs. He felt surrounded because in the natural… well, he was! I can definitely relate to the feeling of the servant, but listen to the response of Elisha:

“Don’t be afraid!” Elisha told him. “For there are more on our side than on theirs!”

How was he able to stay so calm in face of certain disaster? Keep reading…

Then Elisha prayed, “O Lord, open his eyes and let him see!” The Lord opened the young man’s eyes, and when he looked up, he saw that the hillside around Elisha was filled with horses and chariots of fire.

I love this story for so many reasons. I love the drama, I love the unique perspective, I love the fact that God is always for us in all circumstances. Most of all I love the thought that in all circumstances we must choose to see things through the eyes of Faith. I refuse to let one low service attendance or any other bump in road change my belief that God has the best in store for our youth ministry and church.

I am committing myself to seeing things from God’s perspective. I am constantly asking God to allow me to see people, circumstances, and life with His eyes. God is good, He has good plans for us and I choose to see things His way.

I see empty chairs filled, I see broken students made whole, I see lost people as found. God gave His only son for these things become reality and I choose to see that new reality.

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Looking Forward Through the Past

Happy New Year everyone! I am eager to move on to 2010, but before I do I want to give some props to God for the things He accomplished in my life, my family, and our ministry in 2009:

January

Welcomed in the new year with our students at our winter camp Unbound (our final year at the Double K). Students were set free to live the life that God was calling them to live.

February

Punk'd our students by taking them to "Dinner & a Cruise" on Valentine's Day. This consisted of McDonald's and a Ferry boat ride. (Only two hate emails received)

March

Started a blog, no awards received as of yet, but I'll keep writing.

Our church hosted the worship band Planetshakers, from Melbourne, Australia.

As a church we also added a third service option to our Sunday morning schedule.

April

Over 1,000 people in attendance at our Easter weekend services. Wow, God is faithful.

May

Started a fitness challenge with friends that eventually led to me losing 20+ lbs of unwanted flesh... and I've kept it off. Feel great and my wife thinks I look better than ever!

June

Stacey capped off our youth message series, "Dating Delilah" and preached with me for the first time. I'm glad she doesn't do it more often or I may be out of a job... she's really good.

July

Year two of Live Summer Interns (July & August).

Music Month (a new band every week at Live)

Two week mission trip to Swaziland, what I thought was a once in a lifetime trip I am now hoping will be repeated in 2011.

August

Incredible, life altering time at our summer camp Lift '09, with special guest speaker Micahn Carter. Many lives changed for good, including mine.

September

Hosted our first ever youth conference with good friend Tyler Sollie and Eastridge Church.

Launched our Live Full Time Interns Program for ministry students, five full timers enrolled.

Added “layers” to our youth ministry team. JH Director – Amy, HS Directors – Shawn & Erica, College Director – Logan, Worship Director – Shaun.

October

Turned 29.

Annual Kid's Karnival, came dressed as a good looking youth pastor of a sub-urban church in unincorporated South King County. Won best costume.

November

Mission trip with Interns to LA Dream Center.

December

More content than ever in ministry. I’m learning how to give my job away and watch others succeed. Our team is strong and is continuing to develop. Watching our leaders step up and lead is pure joy.

Launched our website… wanna see? www.fwchurch.com/live_youth

Hmm. I realize after completing this post that it looks awfully similar to something I don’t enjoy reading… family Christmas letters. For that I apologize, I am simply thankful for all that God has done this year. I am also inspired to think that next year will be even greater than this one. Happy New Year everyone.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Pray for Louisa

While at the LA Dream Center I had an encounter with a homeless man and his daughter that has stuck with me. It's been over a month since we served there and I still think of Brandon and his five year old daughter Louisa.

While we were serving food to the homeless men and women who live in LA's "Skidrow" neighborhood one of the Dream Center volunteers approached me and said, "That man, across the street is looking for a pastor."

I'll be honest my first thought was, "Darn, he looks mean."

But as I walked across the street to meet him I noticed he had something he was towing behind him. It happened to be his five year old daughter Louisa. A precious little girl with pretty pink shoes on (just like my three year old would wear.)

He introduced himself as Brandon and went on to describe while placing his hands over his daughter's ears how just recently his little girl was sexually molested. He asked for prayer for himself, because he wanted to kill the man who had done this to his baby girl. He also asked for prayer that she wouldn't have nightmares and need years of counseling because of this traumatic event.

As I stood there dumb founded I realized that he had finished talking and was now waiting for me to respond. I quickly stooped down and asked for the hand of Louisa so I could pray with her. She smiled broadly and the three of us called on God to do the miraculous. I used general words as I prayed as I wasn't sure how aware this five year old was to what happened to her. I held back tears and with everything in me asked God to do the impossible.

After our impromptu prayer time we said our goodbyes and they walked down the sidewalk together hand in hand.

This whole event is still vivid and alive in my memory and I'm left asking questions:

Why would God allow such a horrible thing to happen to an innocent little girl?

Why is Brandon walking/living in Skidrow with a five year old?

How will God judge the man who molested this little girl?

The truth is I don't fully understand or have the best answer for these questions, however my faith in God remains strong because I believe our God is a God who does care. I know that I serve a compassionate God and that He's the source of all comfort (2 Corinthians 1:3). I know that God cares (Matthew 6:30), and I know that He is a God who heals (Exodus 15:26, Matthew 4:26).

As I think of little Louisa and her dad Brandon I continually pray for both of them and I think of the countless others who have been abused. I am thankful today, not simply because my girls haven't experienced this kind of abuse, but because I serve an active God who cares, comforts, and heals.

Will join me in praying for Louisa and other kids in her situation?

Email me: andy@fwchurch.com